Mind Over Mouth

When words are many, transgression is not absent, but the prudent are restrained in speech. Proverbs 10:19

Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only what is useful for building up, as there is need, so that your words may give grace to those who hear. Ephesians 4:29

Mark Twain once opined, “Better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all shadow of doubt.” It’s evident that he was simply updating the wisdom of Israel’s sages, who had observed that “Even dunces who keep quiet are thought to be wise; as long as they keep their mouths shut, they’re smart.” (Proverbs 17:28, The Message)

I suspect I’m not alone in my struggle to rein in my tongue. There are words I’ve spoken over the years which I’d love to have the opportunity to take back. Unfortunately, I can’t. And the same is true for you.

How can we avoid doing harm with our words? Where can we learn to tame the tongue? The Rotary Club recommends a four-way test for its members before they open their mouth to speak.

Is it the truth?

Is it fair to all concerned?

Will it build goodwill and better friendships?

Will it be beneficial to all concerned?